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Not a choice
So they say
I have no say
In who I love
Who I want to make love to.
Well I say no.
I say I can choose.
I chose girls.
Girls are softer, sweeter
More complex, more naieve.
They don't hold
The coarseness of men
Or at least
Theirs is a different kind of coarseness.
I chose girls
Because they are beautiful.
Maybe I was born like this
Maybe not.
But I choose to believe
In my own free will
My ability to choose
For myself
Where my heart might go.

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I suppose this poem deserves a short explanation.

I've always heard that being gay isn't a choice, that it's the way I am. But I don't think it's completely predetermined. I chose to go with my instincts and love women. I chose to notice breasts and curves. I didn't choose to keep looking at guys, hoping one would come along that was good enough. I chose to follow my heart.

Like I read somewhere, once, "It's the difference between being dragged into the Colosseum, and walking into the arena proudly, with your head held high."

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I have always thought that homosexuality was not a choice. Still, people choose whether or not to follow their hearts and you have clearly done that.

Overall, this poem is very nice.

Great job!! :D
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~Violet-Minds Dec 3, 2010  Hobbyist Writer
I like the pride in your own choice. Too often have I seen the power of individual choice, as opposed to one's nature, be overlooked or underminded.
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:iconwandering-heart:
Mmm. And gays as a community put a huge emphasis on it not being a choice, which undermines it even more, y'know?
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:iconwandering-heart:
Exactly. Our choices are just as important as our genetic predispositions. As the great Albus Dumbledore once said, "It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities."
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~Violet-Minds Dec 3, 2010  Hobbyist Writer
Way to hammer in the nail with a Dumbledore reference. Very true.
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:iconwandering-heart:
... I just realized what I did there. xD Wow, I'm good.
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Mood: Love ~MJrainbowfrog Dec 2, 2010   Photographer
This is an AMAZING poem! And it is true that know one should be able to tell us who we can and can not love.
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:iconwandering-heart:
Thank you so much! And exactly! If I meet a guy I like, by chance, I should be able to love him without having to wonder if I'm not a "good" lesbian. Love is love is love, y'know?
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Wonderfully said, mi amiga! ^__^ You have such a good point here. WHO CARES if people "choose it" or not? I seriously think that people could sit down and have that conversation for years and not get an answer to that question of whether being gay is a choice or not. Because of that, I love how you say that it doesn't really matter whether you chose it or not; you're just going to follow your heart and do what you believe in. It's what YOU want and what YOU believe, and that's all that matters. (: Again, wonderfully said.

Gahh I love things with great messages like this! x3 And I don't think I have to say you're a stellar poet; we both already know that ;P

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